Wow, after reading this entire thread, I feel like I'm "all dressed up and nowhere to go"...
I am enjoying being single in many other ways, though..thankfully being someone who can relish having some quiet and alone time, as well as having the opportunity to reintroduce myself to the revised version of what I want out of life(assuming I've learned something from the last relationship, in a good way).
I am being absolutely genuine when I say that I LOVE giving oral sex, to the man or woman of my choice..I really do relish the priviledge, when I feel that kind of chemistry that would naturally end in intimacy. What I'm doing, when I'm doing it, is absolutely a turn on, and I can climax just from the action of giving. So, for me, swallowing was something I never even thought about when the time came. I wanted to swallow what was coming to me, just as much as I wanted him in my mouth in the first place. The whole act is such an intimate thing as well as erotic. It's almost as if I can feel the actions of what I'm doing in my own body, and it somehow feels that to do anything else would interrupt the climb to bliss, and usually, I climax at the same time, if it's going the way it should..
