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Old 06-30-2006, 11:39 PM   #44 (permalink)
NandTfromCA
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Join Date: Nov 2005
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Location: Northern California
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NandTfromCA gives some great advice
Default Re: Sexual Blackmail

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Originally Posted by biblonde
If you ignore them completly You two are just fine. There are those out there that are total asses but there are more that are just like you guys. I didnt realize this was your first couple experiance so if I sounded harsh I opologize. Really get away fast from these two. Dont reply to them or return any calls. What they say means nothing really!! Before going out with a couple again make sure you and your wife know your ground rules and are willing to follow them no matter what. NEVER EVER let anyone try to make you do something you dont want to or to degrade you into doing it. If you arent comfy with something you have every right to get up walk out and leave. They dont need an explination...YOU ARENT MARRIED TO THEM! And good luck in the future!! BB
Dito

We feel badly about the awful experience you have had. Most swingers are NOT like that couple.

Be true to yourself and to each other. If you learn from this experience you can grow stronger from it.

Also, just to confirm the "ditto", block them and do not respond to any of their communication. Anything, even asking them to leave you along or explaining yourself further, will make them think they should continue to try and manipulate you.
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