thanks for the reply
we have and are currently talking about this. mrs.fun is not a drinker and says that the drinking should stop while swinging with other couples.i on the other hand would have enjoyed a shot of that j/d but here is the thing, im not going to match you shot for shot because that takes away from the real fun of the great SEX. your wife and you were caught up in the excitement of the party and yes sometimes its hard to be thinking of the rules. we never leave one another long enough for anything to happen but we are just close like that. maby hind sights 20/20. however mrs.fun cant quite get the part where your wife had one hell of an orgasam and says she didnt enjoy it? mrs.fun can relate to this in a way that she has had some great sex with a guy but, like you guys his rude mouth ruined things afterwards.so we dont play with them anymore.but at the moment who knew? not that she didnt enjoy it while it was going on. that being said, how would you feel with her being with another man/couple that was more decent about things. (most of us are). if her being with another man is the problem then we feel you should keep things the way they are with bi females untill you can find a couple that you are really compatible with.dont answer their calls or e mails
. its about you guys as a couple not them. we hope you guys can get through this with a better understanding. and yes the couple sounds like ass holes to us but we have found that as swingers not everyone is the same with their levels of comfort. we prefer couples as friends and we have our rules and respect others. some people like to fuck and never get personal. some like to do girl girl play and go back to their own husbands. it can go on and on with people being diffrent. our main thing is that in our swinging experiances there have been very few downfalls. we enjoy ourselves and take care of each other first and above all.