[youngnhotcpl]

Oh, so far as My Wife wanting to be raped, no, she is not into rough sex. She does not like to be dominated, tied up, and likes nothing to do with pain, aside from tattoos. We are in a equal relationship. I cook, she cleans up. I do yard work, she does House work. We have been married for 13 years. She is very bi. I am a bit of a pain slut, I like sharp fingernails, and do not mind if a woman wants to smack me around. I am Gentle with women, and never take anything. My wife does not smack me around, but our GF likes to. We are all ok with this. I like pain, but do not like to be humiliated. The feeling I get from pain is more strength, that I can take it, and want more. It makes me feel strong. I don't know why, it just does.

All of these bad things have transpired since this past Saturday. The last time we saw them was Sunday. I came to this forum and asked these questions, for we had not ever been with another couple before, and was wondering if the pressure we were experiencing was common. We have known this couple well, for a long time, and had been very close for over a month.

I thought all of it at the time (Saturday at the VAF party), was way over the top. I had no idea until Sunday evening how bad things were. Me and my wife talked, and we both broke down some. Very uncool, and very stressful. We are life partners, and we thought this other couple had our best interest in mind, even when they were pressuring us. This is why we decided to break communication with them, and come here for advice.

I have thought about most of the opinions expressed here by others, and this is why, Sunday, I had a Panic Attack. everything crashed, like a ton of bricks on my chest. I was thinking to myself, what have I done, what the hell have I gotten us into, how could I have let them manipulate us to this point, and why did I not pay more attention to what was happening with the love of my life, my wife.
Thanks for all of your continued help.
I do not mind any and all questions regarding this. I do not want anyone here to get the wrong ideas, so I don't mind explaining our position. It is getting to be a long read, so I was not trying to answer the previous questions, for I thought them a little over the top. We are very normal, she is more on the quiet side, and I am very laid back. Our Swing Lifestyle profile is in2tats, incase anyone wants to see us. Judge for yourself. I think the other couple met on alt, and I did not know what this was until recently.
How much trouble do you think we are in?