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Old 06-30-2006, 01:05 PM   #35 (permalink)
NandTfromCA
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NandTfromCA gives some great advice
Default Re: Sexual Blackmail

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Originally Posted by mr&mrsbees
Interesting thread because this is what we are worried about
Bees- This situation is NOT an example of what typically goes on when people swing.




Youngnhot- As you continue to describe your situation, the more horrible it sounds. My guess is that there are still layers to this onion that you are not sharing.

Do you receive gratification from being disrespected/humiliated?

Does your wife have a rape fetish?

Does your wife desire to be dominated?

If the answer to all of those is “yes”, then maybe the problem isn’t as HUGE as it appears.
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