[youngnhotcpl]

I am going to try and answer some of your questions fun4ds.
We were all at a vafriends party. It was our first. I am way more out going, and wanted to roam the halls, and see exactly what everything at these type partys had to offer. I was hanging out with his wife, dancing, watching, having fun.

The rule that he broke was for a third, one of us was to be involved. Either his wife, or me. This was HIS rule, NO ONE on ONE sex, and I feel like he used his wife to run interference, and used the draw of the VAF party to get her alone. I knew they were in the room, for they do want to walk the halls. It was late, probably 1 in the morning. We all had been drinking. I an not certain about everyone else, and the alcohol use, but I was having a Great time. I drink JD with no mixer. Never passed out, and did not get sick. I probably drank close to a quart in a few hours, and was not paying to much attention to just one person, I was trying to be apart of the whole party. These partys are a blast.

The next morning I asked my wife is she had fun, and if she was comfortable with the party. She told me that He had gave her a hand job. I said, "Where was I". She replied, roaming the halls. I asked her if she got into it, she replied, no, but he did get her off. I said WOW, how did this happen. She replied, "I don't know". She showed me later that day, and I read up on the trick, internet, best info came from sex 101.

We went back to their house that evening, and I acted normal, knowing that I needed more information about everything. I asked him about the G Spot, and he replied, "Yea, you like that trick, I got lots of them. Made her cum 4 times, and she squirted half way across the bed. You had not ever done that before? Oh, your bad."

My wife obviously felt the need to leave out more of the details he continued to brag about for the next few minutes. How he is experienced in all that fun stuff.

My position in anything my wife does, is that if it is safe, comfortable, and if the rules are followed, I can't and will not get jealous. I told her that it was ok, and if is she wanted to have a sexual relationship with him, I was ok with it, and I would gladly help her through any feelings she had about being shy, or having any kind of remorse for having sex with another man. I want us to be the best swingers we can be, and open to all of the pleasures this lifestyle has to offer. She feels unconfortable with the fact that he broke the rules he laid down in the beginning.

The sexual Blackmail is another aggravating factor. It was laid down the night before by his wife to me. I relayed this to my wife. She said that she was not attracted to him, and did not know if she could do it. I relayed this back to his wife, and she said for me to push harder, and if she kept being this way for me to dominate her, and beat her if I had to. I know this "beating" sounds bad, and this is why I have not mentioned it before. I like to be hit, and stuff, so...... well...... this is one of the draws I had to this other couple.

Thanks to all on The Swingers Board. I did not want to post on the forums on our home Swingers site.