[blondie77]

I don't really have anything new to add as I agree with all the other posters on this one. I do think you're making the right choice to end all ties with them. It doesn't matter how close you are with them, how much you may love their family, how fun they are, etc. The bottom line is this: They disrespected you, your wife, your marriage and your boundries. He didn't take no for an answer, and I have no doubt that he'll keep trying again and again until he finally gets what he wants. You say they are the more agressive couple, and to be honest, if you've been passive about your ways of saying no, then you can expect for him not to listen to you. You need to finally be the aggressive one and tell this guy that under no uncertain circumstances is anyone to ever disrespect your wife like he did. I wish you luck in this.