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Originally Posted by youngnhotcpl I know now how it feels to have had my arm twisted so far, it doesn't hurt.
We have written them a letter, and explained our position, and hopefully they are descent enough to just let the past be just that. A unfortunate swinger situation. I have no bad feelings towards them, and I hope they can deal with this like adults.
I received a phone call just now. Did not answer it, let it go to Voice Mail. they said,
If we did not want to have sex anymore, if we still wanted to be friends.
I just do not see this to be an option for us.
We can not trust them to not try and manipulate or hurt us.
They have called my phone three times in the last 10 min. I am scared out of my mind. No more Polyamous relationships for us. Fatal attraction sux.  |
I would not keep that as an option. I hate to be a cynic, but there are some very crazy people out there. In order to protect your wife I would cut it off clean. Do not let her around him, and don't ever leave a drink unattended around them. They seem like they need counseling, not the lifestyle.