 Re: Sexual Blackmail
It is apparant you have made your position clear, and that you would be willing to be friends but no longer swing with them. They in turn made their position clear. They will not be friends without the benefits. Bottom line, I would say you all are no longer friends. Of course, I don't believe they were friends to begin with. Friends don't manipulate and blackmail, nor do they make their so called friends "afraid". You have done the right thing.
You say they called you three times in ten minutes. This borders on harassment if it is causing you fear. I would follow JP51's advice. Harassment is illegal.
Let this situation roll off your shoulders, there are many wonderful people in this lifestyle. And do not be a stranger here, there are many wonderful and supportive people here as well. I hope it all works well for you.
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