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Originally Posted by couple_hot_sd Being new, we can see where "No oral" might be desirable as an upfront understanding for initial contacts but would probably relax a lot pretty soon if things work out and all members of both couples agree.
I mean, if it was ever to be two on two generally oral would be an important part wouldn't it? |
Hi Cory & Dawn - Well, that's something we haven't decided yet, for ourselves, that is. Oral is CERTAINLY a very important part of our OWN sex lives but we really don't know how much of ourselves we are willing to share. And in spite of what some may contend, STD's are a real concern. This is something we want to do to *enhance* what we already have, which is superb. We aren't willing to give ALL of us to other people nor are we looking to others for a *complete* sex life since we already have a great one together. To US, a man burying his head in my pussy is VERY intimate, more so than intercourse. But that's just how we feel. We love exhibitionism and voyeurism and some touching. Beyond that, we aren't sure YET how far we want to go. I can't imagine not being able to have a good time with others just because oral isn't involved. There's just SO many other things you can do and just the *sexually charged atmosphere* is a turn on. We are taking this VERY slow because we don't want to do anything to harm *us*. That's our priority. But, as others have said, the rules are constantly changing as you go along and we're just going to KEEP doing a LOT of talking.
If you already know you want to eventually do two on two and you don't consider oral that intimate an act, it's a different story for you. Just be sure you are well informed and good luck. This is a great place for information and lots of nice people.