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Originally Posted by athena2910 For me, I don't want to have sex with anyone old enough to be my dad! (Not to mention that any man old enough to be my dad now would be elderly! LOL!)
But I can understand that people in their 40s find people in their 20s to be appealing: after all, for most people, being in their 20s means they're at their most attractive. (Yes, I know I'm making a sweeping generalization, but in general, youth, especially in our society is associated with beauty.)
That said, I think maybe a good rule of thumb is to not play with people young enough that you could have given birth to them. There's something rather incestuous about that, Catherine Zeta-Jones and Michael Douglas aside! (And let's not even think about Hugh Hefner who is 80 and his three 20-something girlfriends! Really, does the average 20 year-old really think a man old nearly enough to be her great-grandfather is a hottie? Please.)
A good friend of mine had a rule: he wouldn't date anyone who was either 11 years older or 11 years younger, but everyone in between was fair game. It was clearly very arbitrary, but it worked for him... and yet allowed him a fairly wide range of women.
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I have found that the actual physical age of a person isn't nearly as important as the level of maturity the person exhibits. I have recently met with a couple where the female half is only 21. I am 61. It was one of the most amazing times I have ever had. For her it was all about the sex with no hang-ups on my age. Her husband, who is only about 30 really enjoyed having sex with my girlfriend who is 63.
On the other hand I met with a couple where they were both my age and neither could enjoy the night because of the jealousie expressed by the female when her husband was fucking my girlfriend. who is 63.
For young swingers I really think you are missing out on some really hot times by being so picky. There are many things you can learn from older couples. Enjoy life. Its all to short.
