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Originally Posted by discoandvyper How do we tell them to take a hike without telling them to take a hike? We've already made it clear several times that nothing will ever happen, yet they (he) keeps bringing it up. |
Hi, it sounds like you are very nice, polite people who are getting hit on by a pretty aggressive guy. You said you made it CLEAR several times that you're not interested in sex with them, so I'm going to take you at your word with that.
When pushy people won't take "no, thank you" for an answer, the only choice I make from there is to block them from our IM, from our personal ad, and not accept any more messages from them. I give no further explanation at that point.
Although age wasn't the factor, this happened recently to us with a very pushy husband of a couple. Even after we clearly said "no, not interested, good luck to you, Buh-bye" (nicely), he
still kept trying to IM us, even after he was blocked. Geeeeez, some people.
It's hard to start doing this (blocking people) when you are nice and polite like you obviously are, but you don't have to put up with this, and you are not obligated to them in any way.
Best wishes!