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Originally Posted by tribbles But it's not fair if I can go 20 older to not consider 20 younger cuz if a younger couple is going 20 older as their play limit, then WE are saying nope, too young but those older than us are letting us learn and have fun from them.S |
For me, I don't want to have sex with anyone old enough to be my dad! (Not to mention that any man old enough to be my dad now would be elderly! LOL!)
But I can understand that people in their 40s find people in their 20s to be appealing: after all, for most people, being in their 20s means they're at their most attractive. (Yes, I know I'm making a sweeping generalization, but in general, youth, especially in our society is associated with beauty.)
That said, I think maybe a good rule of thumb is to not play with people young enough that you could have given birth to them. There's something rather incestuous about that, Catherine Zeta-Jones and Michael Douglas aside! (And let's not even think about Hugh Hefner who is 80 and his three 20-something girlfriends! Really, does the average 20 year-old really think a man old nearly enough to be her great-grandfather is a hottie? Please.)
A good friend of mine had a rule: he wouldn't date anyone who was either 11 years older or 11 years younger, but everyone in between was fair game. It was clearly very arbitrary, but it worked for him... and yet allowed him a fairly wide range of women.
Athena