I am glad to here you are leaving this couple.
I may have been harsh on you, but your wife sounds like she needs you to help protect her. Not that she is weak, I am a black belt in karate and I fight internationally, so physically I can take care of myself, but this is different, I need my Dog to help protect me. (Dog being of the two legged variety, NOT four. Yes this question was asked of me.) :rollseyes
You may care for them but I question how much he cares for you.
You can get your answers here. I know I have asked them. I got strait forward answers, not info sugar coated, real answers.
Just ask away, someone will know the answers
Your friend,
Prettylady