[youngnhotcpl]

Both of us care about this couple, and have spent alot of time with their family. We do care about how they feel, and do want to be friends. We have had alot of fun times. This is the first situation we have been in with a aggressive couple. I have not pushed my wife into anything, I have always given her the option to do what she wants, for I do when we are with other women. We have soft swapped, and run around the house naked, she sits on his lap, we have fun, and do fun soft swap stuff together. I can not put all of the blame on her, him, or myself. If I had to guess why she allowed him to toutch her, it was to try and preserve the friendship. This is one of the issues we are having. If she does not put out, they probably will not be willing to keep being friends. We are alot younger than them. I know this does not matter much to most, but they are more dominant in this foursome than us.

As to answer more of your questions about her participation, she said that she just laid there.

I am sure it was different in his eyes. She probably would not tell me even if things were more. She wanted everybody to have a good evening, and the stress of knowing that the good time could end because she was not willing to participate forced her to try, as well as made me let it happen.