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Originally Posted by fun4Ds mrs. fun was in the hot tub with a single guy that we (both think the world of) and i can rember while she is having what i think is a good time i leaned over and kissed her and said i love you to her. she can rember to that point that she went to our room and crashed out thats the end of her recollection till morning. |
I think I've scanned most of the thread here, but one thing is confusing to me. As I read the above section from the original posting, I'm left with wondering if thei guy they thought the world of knows anything? Even if why they might have been banned from the club?
As far as fault, that ulitmately lies with the person who drugged you. So keep telling yourself that it was highly unlikely in the situation you were in that you could have prevented this. Just as the Internet is a highly suspect environment, the real world is even more so. Odds are that even a normally diligent person who was "watching the drinks" would not have been able to detect someone drugging it. (From personal experience in what can be done "undetected".) So hopefully you'll stop giving yourself a guilt trip on this.
I empathize with you on the decision whether to bring in authorities or not. Despite what some people have written here and despite the fact that their personal opinions of things shouldn't get in the way of dealing with a crime, it has been know to happen that law officers will let their opnions interfer. How many "rape" vicitims have been victimized because they wore provocative clothing? So at least I understand the conflict you're going through.
Our sympathies and best wishes on dealing with this unfortunate incident.