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Thank you everyone for your thoughts. My wife and I are discussing the options involved in threesomes MMF or FMF - this way there is no "breaking off" into little subgroups which I don't understand anyway. I believe there are two reasons we got involved in this type of affair: one due to the people we've met so far - it's their way of operating - and I know for a fact that it's over for us, and the other is the fact we've only been into this for about 4 months. I can say this for sure - I won't put myself in this position again - it's bad for me and the woman and I hate that.
Yes, attraction is very important to me (and maybe we'll learn to be much more sellective from this experiance) but so is the attitude - if that's not there than nothing is going to work out and when I say attitude - I'm talking nasty, that's what I'm used too and that's what turnes me on. We know there is someone out there that will trip my triggers - we havn't run into one yet.
I'm 44 years old so you bet I've tried viagra - but, I rarely use it with my wife - don't really need it. I have however had it on board during my 4 encounters and it was of little use - yes the mental part of viagra has to be there - figured that out long ago so I didn't expect it to help.
Thanks again everyone for your time and attention.
Regards,
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