Don't sweat it. Just tell people. Some will say "Thanks but we can't do without" and others will say "ok, no problem".
We have something about us that is a pretty big deal breaker - we refuse to shave and don't even trim! We are hariy beasts and like hair. It's who we are. And having a great relationship, that has lasted us over 25 yrs, we aren't changing just to please other people.
Yeah, on this board many, many people said it would be a deal breaker and they wouldn't play with us. In Real Life, we have found plenty of playmates -some who even hunt us down cuz they too, like hair.
Just go have fun. Remember, you are a couple and can always have fun at a party with each other and people watching!
S