Thread: Is "no oral sex" a deal breaker?
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Old 06-26-2006, 03:52 PM   #2 (permalink)
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Default Re: Another newbie question
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Originally Posted by Snake 'n Bunny
So my question is this....is the "no oral" being a deal breaker the general consensus?
As long as you are up front with people about it I don't think their are very many things that are automatic deal breakers. That said, if someone told us that their would be no oral we would probably decline to play with them.

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Originally Posted by Snake 'n Bunny
Are you expected to know how you feel about this right off the bat?
Ask anybody who has been in the lifestyle very long and you will probably find that most will say that what they are comfortable with and their rules are an ever evolving thing. So no, I wouldn't expect that anyone would know everything they are comfortable with right off the bat.
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