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Snake 'n Bunny · 06-26-2006, 12:57 AM

Hmmmm, I should have done a little more reading before I made the statement that there was a whole spectrum to choose from in the lifestyle.

I just read a series of posts which stated not wanting oral sex would be a deal breaker. While my SO and I truly enjoy oral sex with each other, we aren't sure that's something we'd care to share with others. Also, someone went so far as to make the statement that oral was safer than intercourse. Not so, not so, not so. I may know nothing about the swinging life style, but I am STD phobic and have done a LOT of reading on the subject. It's probably safer with a female doing the man than it is with the man doing the woman.

So my question is this....is the "no oral" being a deal breaker the general consensus? Are you expected to know how you feel about this right off the bat?

Thanks again everyone for your patience.

06-26-2006, 12:57 AM	#1 (permalink)
Snake 'n Bunny Here to Stay Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 21 Location: Boston Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:SnakenBunny	Is "no oral sex" a deal breaker? Hmmmm, I should have done a little more reading before I made the statement that there was a whole spectrum to choose from in the lifestyle. I just read a series of posts which stated not wanting oral sex would be a deal breaker. While my SO and I truly enjoy oral sex with each other, we aren't sure that's something we'd care to share with others. Also, someone went so far as to make the statement that oral was safer than intercourse. Not so, not so, not so. I may know nothing about the swinging life style, but I am STD phobic and have done a LOT of reading on the subject. It's probably safer with a female doing the man than it is with the man doing the woman. So my question is this....is the "no oral" being a deal breaker the general consensus? Are you expected to know how you feel about this right off the bat? Thanks again everyone for your patience.