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Originally Posted by liv2 Answer to 1st question re: prevention... Well, let me say that I am a true believer that if a man is bored, he will stray (eventually) and I guess if he has told me, then I am a lucky one, as most men would not have the guts to admit that to their wife! (glass half full, not half empty), although it still hurt to hear!
The more responses I am getting to this post, the more I am now remembering how cool, open and non judgemental swingers are (remember it's been a while!).
Thank you for that, now I know I am not being 'silly', just normal! |
This really hits home for me as this is what I told my then girlfriend (and now wife) the same thing. I hope you understand that knowing your husband told you the truth about himself was not easy because he had to know that it would hurt you and I don't beleive your husband wanted to hurt you anymore than I wanted to hurt the woman I love.
In this life it is impossible to not hurt the ones you love sometime. But I will always choose telling hurtful truths over self-serving lies that end-up being much more hurtful.
I love my wife and have too much respect for her to ever be a liar and a cheat.
And it is way too easy for any man to be a liar and a cheat.
You are lucky that your husband understands himself enough to try to communicate this to you. Your husband and I both understand HOW WE ARE
and how none of this is YOUR FAULT.
I also want to say that I see nothing silly about any of your concerns.