When I talk with people I ask them the same questions in differnet ways hubby does the same we then add up the answers and if they dont line up we find we cant trust these people. We are very safe and dont even want to get involved with someone we feel we cant trust. I ahve found if people get offended when yuo ask sexual questions they arent in it for the long haul..anyone who is interesed in th lifestyle has to eb able to lok at themselves honestly and be quite frank when it comes to sex. Innuendo, avoidance or redirection from anyone usually gets them crossed off my list. I am a shoot from the hip type and prefer those liek me.
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