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Originally Posted by Tybee Swing Really? Interesting... What are you wanting to prevent?
Not at all silly, and very normal! We only swing with people that we are both comfortable with. Even if we haven't known them long at all, it has to feel right, the feeling has to be right. I know exactly what you mean. Good for you! 
I can't comprehend doing something with someone I was uncomfortable with, not interested in, or didn't feel right to me. That could only end up feeling creepy. It's supposed to feel good and be fun. |
Answer to 1st question re: prevention... Well, let me say that I am a true believer that if a man is bored, he will stray (eventually) and I guess if he has told me, then I am a lucky one, as most men would not have the guts to admit that to their wife! (glass half full, not half empty), although it still hurt to hear!
The more responses I am getting to this post, the more I am now remembering how cool, open and non judgemental swingers are (remember it's been a while!).
Thank you for that, now I know I am not being 'silly', just normal!