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Originally Posted by liv2 I don't think I am thinking about singing to fix things, maybe prevent things in the future. |
Really? Interesting... What are you wanting to prevent?
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Originally Posted by liv2 I enjoy swinging (or did), with the right people... but (hope this doesn't sound silly), when the feeling is right! I have to feel comfortable, and I have no idea how to predict when that will be! Is that normal? |
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at all silly, and very normal! We only swing with people that we are both comfortable with. Even if we haven't known them long at all, it has to feel right, the feeling has to be right. I know exactly what you mean. Good for you!
I can't comprehend doing something with someone I was uncomfortable with, not interested in, or didn't feel right to me. That could only end up feeling creepy. It's supposed to feel good and be fun.