I maybe new to swinging, but sex is not new.
Do you know where the "G" spot is? you are plenty big enough to reach that.
I love to feel a man inside me, but I find the banging against my cervex painful. so anything bigger the 6" is not exciting to me. I love to be talked to, right in my ear, soft, sensual, and yes even dirty Combine that with caresses and you can put me through the roof. That is what gets me going. My guy can bring me to orgasm by touching me and speaking the right words.
You dick in only one weapon in an arsenal. Be a "god" of war, not the guy with nothing more then a pistol.
Your friend,
Prettylady