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Originally Posted by dayhiker hi,
As a guy addressing a woman's insecurities I'll surely fail! But I'll have a little fun with it. First you have done several good things for yourself. They are good, so don't 2nd guess yourself. I'm sure your husband sees that. Since you have made this progress he might be thinking we can make even more progress by swinging.
If you swing, you will find that you are in demand I'm guessing. If I were you I'd recomend getting past needing alcohal. That the secureity you have gained. Build from there! I think you will find its easier to swing without alcohal or with a limited about of it than it was to loss that weight!
talk to your husband and find out what he is thinking about your insecurities and how swinging will effect it.
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Well... I hope you're right about my husband noticing the effort.
I already know his opinion on my insecuritites and he gets annoyed that I feel that way about myself. He likes I am great looking etc etc and cannot understand why I think the way I do.
Thanks for you reply!