The Swingers Board - View Single Post

2jersey · 06-20-2006, 04:42 PM

Jimmy, given your length, you are shorter than about 90% of the male population. Your girth, however, is greater than about 30+% of the male population. So, when you average things out, you aren't 'tiny', just 'below average'.

I have never quite understood the oft repeated comments suggesting that "the important thing is what you do with it". Frankly, there are only so many things you can do with 'it' - in and out, faster or slower, that's about all... However, there is much you can do to stimulate the woman's mind and body, and this involves skill and incorporates body parts other than your penis (during foreplay, and during intercourse).

To your main point: yes, it is possible that your wife will experience different physical sensations with a large penis - and these sensations may be more pleasurable. It is also possible that the thought of a large penis will be more stimulating to her than the actual physical contact - it all depends on how she is wired (to some women, size doesn't matter).

Do you and your wife love and trust one another? Are you each emotionally secure and communicative? Do you have a pleasurable on-on-one sexual relationship? If the answer to these questions is "yes", you may be ready to proceed.

06-20-2006, 04:42 PM	#3 (permalink)
2jersey Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Feb 2006 Posts: 489 Location: ~~~ Status: Couple	Re: Should I worry That I Don't Messure Up? Jimmy, given your length, you are shorter than about 90% of the male population. Your girth, however, is greater than about 30+% of the male population. So, when you average things out, you aren't 'tiny', just 'below average'. I have never quite understood the oft repeated comments suggesting that "the important thing is what you do with it". Frankly, there are only so many things you can do with 'it' - in and out, faster or slower, that's about all... However, there is much you can do to stimulate the woman's mind and body, and this involves skill and incorporates body parts other than your penis (during foreplay, and during intercourse). To your main point: yes, it is possible that your wife will experience different physical sensations with a large penis - and these sensations may be more pleasurable. It is also possible that the thought of a large penis will be more stimulating to her than the actual physical contact - it all depends on how she is wired (to some women, size doesn't matter). Do you and your wife love and trust one another? Are you each emotionally secure and communicative? Do you have a pleasurable on-on-one sexual relationship? If the answer to these questions is "yes", you may be ready to proceed.