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Darkblue · 06-20-2006, 01:51 PM

Do you want to swing? or are you doing this for him?? i get the feeling your not into swinging and are only going to do this for him?? if so then dont swing theres two of you here and doing something that only one side really wants wont make you happy!! taking your clothes off in front of others isnt a big deal but if you need a bit of alcohol to do so then how much will you need to swing? i get the feeling that your being put under pressure to swing by your partner with comments like"My husband is concerned with the fact that he is going to get bored of our sex life if it continues the way it is (but assures me that he is happy! (?))." i cant believe he said that! after all it takes two to tango and both of you should make the effort to have great sex,

Sorry if i have misread your post but thats the way its reads to me..

If you dont want to swing then dont never do something like swinging unless you are 110%sure you want to it wont help your sex life,it might his but not yours..

You are who you are and i am sure you will be loved by a lot of guys and be in demand if your doing this for yourself then fine everyone is beautifull, if your 150 kgs or 50 kgs.
Steve

06-20-2006, 01:51 PM	#3 (permalink)
Darkblue Steve and Susanne Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 229 Location: Germany Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:darkblue	Re: Hubby's fantasies and where I stand? Do you want to swing? or are you doing this for him?? i get the feeling your not into swinging and are only going to do this for him?? if so then dont swing theres two of you here and doing something that only one side really wants wont make you happy!! taking your clothes off in front of others isnt a big deal but if you need a bit of alcohol to do so then how much will you need to swing? i get the feeling that your being put under pressure to swing by your partner with comments like"My husband is concerned with the fact that he is going to get bored of our sex life if it continues the way it is (but assures me that he is happy! (?))." i cant believe he said that! after all it takes two to tango and both of you should make the effort to have great sex, Sorry if i have misread your post but thats the way its reads to me.. If you dont want to swing then dont never do something like swinging unless you are 110%sure you want to it wont help your sex life,it might his but not yours.. You are who you are and i am sure you will be loved by a lot of guys and be in demand if your doing this for yourself then fine everyone is beautifull, if your 150 kgs or 50 kgs. Steve
	Last edited by Darkblue; 06-20-2006 at 01:53 PM.