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Originally Posted by The Fuse  Did the woman at the vanilla bar have at least an implied invitation from Mr. 2jersey? If someone grabbed Mr. Fuse's crotch without his permission (and mine, at least implied), I'd call that very rude at best, assault at worst -- same as if someone grabbed my crotch without some kind of an invitation. In a swinging situation like a club, outside a group play setting, this might be excused with a warning... it depends. |
A stranger would not have been welcome to grab away (it is doubtful that one would ever try
). We are friendly with this particular couple - the woman is extremely outgoing and sensual and her flirtations are harmless fun. The husband appears embarrassed at times - but he doesn't get upset, he just rolls his eyes...
Swinging has actually brought us closer together with some of the more free spirited people in our vanilla lives. One can only take so much of Junior Leaguers playing backyard croquet in plaid shorts (uggh!).