 Re: Should we explore this?
Dont tell him you are a swinger and ask him if he has ever considered swinging with his wife to fill the sexual void in his life?
Plant a seed.
That way you can kind of kill two birds with one stone.
In the meantime, just tell him you haven't asked your hubby about yours and his conversation because you feel uncomfortable asking your husband such a question and that when you said it you wern't really thing about it right.
He will explore the possibility of swinging with his wife. If she doesn't want to swing then maybe she will tell him it is fine for him to swing alone.
Maybe she will want to swing with him as a couple.
Maybe she won't want to have anything to do with it either way.
But one way or the other, you will know and you didn't make any committment, just a suggestion.
But this is a touchy situation. If he is looking for a full blown affair with the emotions and everything, then he isn't looking for just sex. If he's not looking for just sex then you probably don't want to be his "emotions and everything".
But I hope it works out for you.
|