maby im missing something here
and im sorry if im wrong
but you seem to know him better than her? you seem to know what she does and dosent do... but not how SHE feels... it seems that might be very important. i know mrs.fun would want to know everything about the other womens feelings.. [girl stuff}.. if they have a bad sex life at home dont you think he should be working on that first? most affairs start with " oh im not satisfied at home" sorry but im a guy that works with alot of guys, and when i hear that (at work) they are not gettin it good enough at home, i usally ask do you treat your wife like she is #1 ? i usally get a dumb look followed by well i do this or that.well how about forgettin all about yourself and sit down with your wife and ask questions {without giving your opinion and solutions}, but more of HOW DOES THAT MAKE YOU FEEL. AND LISTEN DONT INTERUPT. maby im wrong but it dosent sound like this guy truly knows the women hes with. it would be interesting to know how she FEELS about things. Surrender