 Re: Should we explore this?
It does sound like he's just wanting to get laid.
If you and your husband are really that close friends with him then I'd think you should simply confide in him first that you two have experimented in swinging. No details, just let him know that you've done it, worked through the usual problems, liked it and will likely continue in ideal situations.
Now if his immediate reaction is that since you've done it with other men you'll certainly do it with him then I'd back off. He just didn't get it.
But if it leads to a real conversation about all the positive aspects of swinging then find out if he'd also be OK with his wife being with others. And, get his permission to talk to her.
It seems that you would like to be with him about as much as he wants you so maybe it'd be better for your husband to talk to his wife. Or at least the two of you together so you don't get traped having to admit to her how many times her husband has hit on you. Perhaps all four of you could approach the topic during a game of Truth or Dare or something.
But, unless she agrees without reservations I'd forget it. And if she agrees let her set all boundaries. She's likely going to feel defensive.
Who knows? It just might open up a whole new world for her. But it sure could cause more problems with thier marriage too. Tip toe and use extreme caution.
Good luck to you,
Rich
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