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Old 06-14-2006, 09:25 PM   #8 (permalink)
NandTfromCA
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Default Re: Should we explore this?

Regardless of what Mrs. H would accept, the line about Mr. H becoming needy is one of the more concerning things to me as well.

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Originally Posted by The Fuse
Whew... I guess our friendship is changed regardless of what we do, or don't do. It's changed now because I swing, and so have to lie about why I won't sleep with him
Surely your friendship has changed but what do you need to lie about?

You can tell him that you don’t want to sleep with him because it would be cheating on his wife. That one is pretty straightforward.

It seams you could also tell him that what you do with other men, and what he would be looking for, are two different things. He is looking for an affair, whereas that is not what you and Mr. Fuse are into at all (at least I don't think so).

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