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Originally Posted by The Fuse ...Mr. Fuse and I talked about it last night. We're concerned that in the unlikely event that we had a threesome (or even less likely, a swap, which would be great if Mrs. H were interested), H would become too needy and demanding after the first time. We trust them to not "out" us or anything like that. I have no idea how Mrs. H would react, because sometimes people surprise you. I would definitely need to speak directly to her to get her approval, if H said she did approve... |
We bolded the statement which concerns us the most.
H may not understand the swinging mentality - and he may not be unable to suppress the emotions that vanilla people often associate with physical encounters.
You are a very well spoken and intelligent women - and you may be able to figure out a way around this issue. But the prospect of H becoming emotionally attached to you may become a major headache for you, and a significant problem for H and his spouse.