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Originally posted by BostonDLT
...but on average, if you had to pick one sex..which would you guess would suggest not using one, hmm?
I don't consider myself 'wild' by any definition, (ok, maybe one or two! :-)) but I'd really like more of the details with regard to how YOU define a 'wild girl.' Really...how many men would I be allowed to have 'done' (god that sounds awful!) to be considered 'wild?' Is the final outcome (wild vs nice) also colored by the various acts peformed? Sheesh.
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When I was single, I always insisted on a condom, much to the dismay of the male partner sometimes. But because they wanted it just as badly as I did, they gave in and put one on. When I met my husband for the year that we dated before moving in together, a condom was always used. No if and's or but's about it. Hmmm, is that is why he asked me to move in so he could sail bareback?
I too would like to know how many it takes to be considered 'wild'. I had several different partners during my single years. Now, I am having then while being married. So what is the magical number? Have I crossed the line from being 'wild' to being 'wildly out of control'?
I have never had an STD, nor an unwanted pregnancy. Does that make me a reasonably nice but *wild* girl?
I have a friend from high school who probably laid 2/3rds of the male populace in her junior and senior years and part of her freshman and sophmore years in college. She met and married the man of her dreams at the age of 23 and is probably one of the best mother/wife that I have ever seen. She has managed to stay married for over 20 years, to the same man and they are incredibly happy. I can't say that for the majority of all the other people that I have known in my life, myself included.
I think it is hard to catagorize men or women based on their past sexual history. I think both sexes should be based on their character regardless of how many people they nailed prior to you.
Let's face it, there are a lot of us out there that have had some pretty active sex lives before meeting someone that they want to share their lives with. There are just as many that enter into swinging after only
EVER having had sex with their spouse.
I believe that it is as much a double standard for women to be considered *wild* as it is a man is to be considered being a *stud*.
Good/nice girls do come in *wild* packages too. As J&K said "You take the risk for your own actions". You cannot expect someone else to do it for you or be honest with you.
Ciscosv, you are right this topic belongs in the Sex/STD forum.
Lori