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Old 06-14-2006, 11:05 AM   #9 (permalink)
Tybee Swing
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Default Re: More/better attention to swing partner than to mate

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Originally Posted by LOL_OMG
I guess it happens, maybe because one spouse or the other is disinterested or disapointed or bored in what goes on in their own bedroom. If that is the case I wouldn't want them to be my partner, I like the fun to be an extension and not vice versa....if that makes any sense.

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I totally agree and couldn't have said it better. I feel exactly the same way. If our swing friends were getting a lot more passion & enthusiasm, good kissing, oral sex, TLC, and all of the "good stuff" more than I was getting from my own partner, I would take it as a very big danger sign about our own relationship.

I understand the excitement of the new factor - no problem with that. But if my hubby was ho-hum with us, but gangbusters with everybody else....Hmmmm!
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