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Old 06-13-2006, 11:12 PM   #4 (permalink)
Spoomonkey
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Default Re: More/better attention to swing partner than to mate

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Originally Posted by Mrs Spoomonkey
But, more than what we give each other ... never.
Mostly this is due to comfort, honestly. Granted, I would feel a little weird if I were pouring more of myself onto a playmate than I do Mrs Spoo, but at the same time, I don't worry that this will happen "by accident".

I am very comfortable with Mrs Spoo and know how much "monkey" she can handle - and just how "passionate" I can be. I've never been that comfortable with a playmate. I've been more comfortable with some than others, but never to the level of Mrs Spoo. And the less comfortable I am, the more I hold back.

But I think this is pretty common.

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