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Old 06-13-2006, 10:42 PM   #3 (permalink)
Mrs Spoomonkey
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Join Date: Mar 2004
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Location: Ohio
Status: Married
Swing Lifestyle Name:spoomonkey

Mrs Spoomonkey gives some great advice
Default Re: More/better attention to swing partner than to mate

I have never felt like Spoo gave a playmate more attention or affection then he gives me. Of course he and I (and most swingers) want to bring our "A" game so to speak. You want to give your playmate a good time and a "Wow, I'd like to play with him/her again" experience. You can tend to be a little nervous with a playmate since you don't know what they like or don't like so you try to pull out all your best stuff. But, more than what we give each other ... never.


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