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Originally Posted by Dynamar I see your point. In my experience, three out of four times the "leg work" is done by the female. So while what works for you, while not unheard of by any means, is not the majority that I have observed. |
Ugh those lucky men
You know I think as a rule it does work out better with the women running the show. Part of the reason why I think swinging is 'run' by the women is because of the men. Actions many would fine unacceptable in a male are benificial to a female in swinging. Last time I was at a club I was lucky to make it past the dance floor without bruises since my ass was squeezed by random females so many times. Random men doing that to a woman would not be tolerated to the same degree(by the other men if not the women). So it seems the men become passive and the women preditory. So I'm more passive at the clubs, the problem is Mrs. Chicup is quite shy and worried about looking stupid so shes passive, and we look like that 'safe' couple which attracts couples who don't want to play but just go to the club to 'feel sexy'.
This is actually something we are working on together, perhaps I should make a forum post on it instead of hijacking
