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Originally Posted by Dynamar My opinion, and my opinion only?... There's plenty of married men out there who would feel much more comfortable swinging if their wife never got to be with another man. However, the reality I've observed is that most couples who enter the lifestyle do so at the behest of the husband. But once they get out there and figure out they can't find a unicorn, they either leave altogether or the wife starts running the show and they go full swap.
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Mmm you are right about the first part, when we started I would have felt a lot more comfortable with a single female. Now I can't speak for all but for us I'm still running the show (or more like doing all the leg work) but we went full swap pretty fast and never seriously looked or courted a single female since our first add.