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Originally Posted by 2jersey We are curious to hear the perspective of others on the board. Why do couples seem to have so much interest in threesomes involving single females – as opposed to couples’ activity in which all parties can be satisfied to a similar extent (and the females get some variety in their male activity)? |
I'm ashamed to say our very first add was the standard couple looking for a single female. I know I know we were young and confused
The reality of it was for me it was FAR less a threat, and the Mrs. was open to it, it was a having your cake and eating it too idea. Well you can guess how many responses we got, about 8, all from single males of course.
I don't recall what got us looking for a couple (it was very soon after, we were both open to it, but it was an added level of scary) but we did and it all worked out fine
We took single females off our profile some time ago, its not really what we are looking for from a social stand point and most seem pretty odd as you stated.
Over the years I've seen the new couple looking for a single female as the stereotype for the insecure new swingers.
Now Mrs. Chicup is only 'mildly' bi, its fun but only as a side note, so as such she would be willing to do an FMF with a single female as a new experiance, its not 'her thing'. Perhaps if she were more bi or bi furious as some of the women are we would be looking for that unicorn.