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Originally Posted by MoonLightKiss Was I wrong about them not being ready? Should I have kept my mouth shut and just told them to come here, that I was too new to answer their questions? |
You answered exactly as I would have, and I hope they read this post, too. You were not being hypocritical, just brutally honest and they didn't like the answer.
Our favorite analogy of swinging is: Swinging is like a cake. The marriage is the cake and swinging is the frosting. If the ingredients are not in the cake to make it solid, all the frosting in the world is not going to keep it from falling falling apart.
They are considering swinging for the wrong reason, to avoid and thus "fix" in their own minds what is wrong in their marriage. All they're going to do is intensify those problems, and as you've pointed-out, bring unneccessary drama into other's lives, too.
They may have a hard time at it, also, unless they meet someone that is as inexperienced as they are. I think the veterns would see right through them within 30 minutes of meeting.
Mr. WS