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Originally Posted by xxoticangel If your partner is very attracted to someone and you find the spouse just OK do you go ahead and play or wait until you find a couple that your both have the same level of attractivenes too? |
We do them.
If either of us are physically turned off we don’t play. If both of us are complacent (not turned on but not turned off), then we don’t play. If one of us is complacent but the other is ready to go, we play. If both of us are ready to go…well, you can guess that one.
Here’s why:
1) If one of us is having a blast, we are both happy.
2) Sometimes one of us thinks we are compromising going into the act but then finishes with a big grin…after finding out how fun they are in bed.
We have also had the opposite where we are both heated up and ready to go with a couple we think is uber hot and lots of fun, but we find out that one or both of us has a less than great time in bed with them.
There’s that saying- “You never know until the rubber hits the road”. With some slight modifications, it fits pretty well for swinging.