 Re: "Taking one for the team"
Not taking one for the team has become one of those rules that we let go of as we got more experienced. We never expected that but it happened. We have both very much enjoyed getting with play pals who were maybe a little below our normal standards, for all kinds of reasons. It always seemed like such a bad thing when we were first starting but much less so now.
As long as everybody is having fun it's all cool, is our new attitude. Within certain limits, of course. If somebody is actively gross as opposed to just not that attractive then it wouldn't be fun for one of us and that would violate the 'as long as everybody is having fun' rule.
|