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Originally Posted by MoonLightKiss To me, the term "taking one for the team" basically means when one person has sex with someone they really don't want to in order for the other person to have sex with someone they really want to.
This is something that hubby and I have agreed to never do. I have read threads on this board where people have regretted doing it, or it has caused some kind of difficulty. We agreed that when we decided to do this, if both of us are not interested, its a no-go. That way no one is tempted to be selfish and say "look what I did for you that time, why can't you do it for me this time." |
We've done MFMs but haven't yet swapped, so I guess I don't know how much of an expert I am, but I do disagree here. In my view, part of a great swinging experience is watching my wife just really, really enjoy herself with a handsome stud. In that light, if a couple had a great looking husband, but the wife was not attractive, I would definitely go for it anyhow. That's not even "taking one for the team" in my book because HALF of the whole experience is watching my wife enjoy herself. Now, if the spouse was so repulsive that I simply could not go through with it, I might be inclined to say "Honey, I'd love to see you do this guy, but I cannot hang with his Mrs." In sum, I guess I've taken myself out of the taking one for the team mode because I want to watch the wife in action just as much as I want some action myself.
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