[xxoticangel]

Anyone that has read more than two post on this board has heard the term "taking one for the team". Reading the board also tells me that most people have different meaning attached to the same term.

My definition of "taking one for the team" is when one of us has sex with a person to he/I is not attracted at all in order for the other party to have sex with someone they are attracted to.

Given my definition I have "taken one for the team" once, sort of. We met a woman at a lifestyle friendly nude resort that we were both very attracted to. They maintained a summer cabin on the grounds where she stayed most of the time and he would come in Friday after work. She was very straight forward about being attracted to us also but as they too had a rule against playing alone we all agreed to wait until Saturday night when her husband was present. Everything was very promising until we actually met her husband Saturday morning. He was everything I find unattractive tall (6'4), bald, goatee, and a protruding beer belly but a very nice and outgoing person that had everyone rolling with his jokes and stories. Our immediate reaction was to not do anything with them. Later that night alcohol and lust for the wife overcame my common sense and we ended up playing with them. She was a great lover to both of us but he done in the first 30 seconds and wanted me to spend the rest of the night giving him oral trying to get him ready again. Long story a little shorter, what would have been a great FFM was a bad experience.

That said, based on my definition, I didn't really take one for the team since Mr Xxotic didn't push anything and was very surprised when I decided to go through with it. In reality I took one for me, Mr Xxotic just enjoyed the rewards.

Anyway, my question to the learned experts is "Exactly what does the term "Taking one for the team" mean to you?"