 Re: Giving up on wife
cqwest has said something that it seems like I hear a lot.
During dating, before marriage a woman communicates to some level that she is interested in sex and enjoying sex. After the marriage the sexual interest drops off fairly quickly. In reading relationship stuff on the web for 14 years, I can't even guess how many times I've read that.
To my mind this sounds like the woman was just playing interested in sex till she got her man. I really think it should be said over and over that this is a sure way to make a husband miserable and a woman should be more honest about this stuff before they get marriage.
I'm sure there are women that have started to enjoy sex and their marriage went along, Ya, I've read those stories too. But the majority go the other way, less sex.
My read is that cqwest tried all the things you guys encouraged him to personally do. The medical check up would be great. A councelor .. might help. I think his wife needs to come clean and say what her interest in sex is? If she wants to want sex then get busy with the work of finding why she isn't enjoying and wanting sex. If she has no interest then she needs to own up to the fact and then inform decissions can made.
There is probably some flustration in my vioce! I'm dealing with that and my wife is working on her issues as well. Praise God.
dayhiker
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