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Old 06-08-2006, 05:52 AM   #5 (permalink)
Mistral Wind
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Default Re: Giving up on wife

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Originally Posted by Suncouple
Go see a marriage counselor ASAP.
That is really good advice, tell your wife how bored you are with your sex life and want to put the romance back, NOT that you want to go elswhere or start swinging.

1 Get the romance back
2 Get her happy exploring your sex lives and enjoying it.
3 Start talking about fantasies (they are a great way of telling your partner what you would like to do with the get out "It was just a fantasy" if she don't like it)
4 Take the fantasy a stage further and get her talking about trying a 3 some - 4 some even soft swing to get the feel

You can't do this in one jump, so start with the councellor first and find out where her head is.

Good luck!
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