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Originally Posted by Spoomonkey Of course, if you have a problem playing with cheaters, you are bound to be called the morality police |
That's okay, I'm sure I've been called worse!
Still, would rather be me and share where I/we stand on things. I can take the heat.
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Originally Posted by Spoomonkey Have we played with cheaters? Maybe... Not on purpose - but how can you really know? |
Very true! We just don't want to knowingly get involved with cheaters, and we try to avoid it. If they're so slick that they truly fooled us, we don't feel responsible for that.
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Originally Posted by Spoomonkey I am really surprised you spent so much time talking to her. Early on, we might have too  |
I felt compelled to exchange a couple of emails with her....it wasn't really too much of my time....because I just had this instinct that she needed to hear it, needed somebody kind to talk to. Call me crazy, but it was what I sensed from her, so I went with it.
Also, another reason I felt she was very green and needed guidance: Her full first and last names were visible in her emails! I notified her of that and told her that for her own safety and security, she might want to fix that option in her email account, taking her last name out. She seemed somehow gullible and not at all wise about all of this. Can you tell I'm trying to avoid the word "stupid"? LOL!
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Originally Posted by Spoomonkey And since LM is right, eventually she will just move on and find couples that don't care and your advice won't mean a thing  |
Well, you just never know. What if she realized she was making a mistake in the direction she was going, and before any damage is done, decides to turn toward working on her marriage and talks to her husband, after all? Maybe they could crack things open between them and work it all out. I'm an optimist....It
could happen.
