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Originally Posted by LikeMinds321 Even if she leaves her profile as is, there are many swingers who will play with her because they don't care if she's cheating. |
True...
Everyone is responsible for their own ethics. Of course, if you have a problem playing with cheaters, you are bound to be called the morality police - which I have yet to understand... But I also don't understand Calculus, and I have managed to shrug that one off too...
Have we played with cheaters?
Maybe...
Not on purpose - but how can you really know? Especially when you are new to the lifestyle... We have gotten (we think) pretty good at getting the "I'm married" vibe off of guys at the club; that or we have just gotten really, really hard on single guys. But - in the beginning I'm willing to bet a donut that we made that mistake.
And to be 100% honest - when we were early into it we might have been tempted by the "married/single" female because we were under the impression that it was really a rare thing (and single men obviously aren't). Now, however, I have had enough FMFs to know that there is no pressure. You can wait for "unicorns" who are both attractive AND single.
I am really surprised you spent so much time talking to her. Early on, we might have too
And since LM is right, eventually she will just move on and find couples that don't care and your advice won't mean a thing
Spoomonkey